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By Jane Samwell
I
arrived in Nairobi the afternoon of June 23rd. The drive to Jacob
and Edith’s home was handled with daring and skill by Jeannie,
who challenged her right to pass and turn with the best of the chaotic
Nairobi traffic. I was very impressed and glad it wasn’t me
driving.
We spent
5 nights with Jacob and Edith and their 2 children. It was from
their house that we ran the first W@W weekend which officially began
Saturday morning and finished with lunch Sunday. There were about
14 sisters present, some having travelled a long way from very poor
and drought-stricken areas. They appeared thin, weary and disheartened.
Our hearts went out to them. By the end of the weekend with full
stomachs, lots of good fellowship and, hopefully, some worthwhile
spiritual input, they were much chirpier and left with bus fare
and fond farewells. Some had a 5-hour journey ahead of them back
to a life of deprivation and hardship.
Early
the following Monday morning, Jeannie, Mary and I took off for our
drive to Mombasa. Andrew Fotheringham had left Jeannie a Toyota
diesel van to use. It is an amazing vehicle, withstanding the terrible
roads we needed to use and the large amount of people we crammed
into it. Only the tires let us down with 8 punctures while I was
there. (I refused to go out and collect children without a male
to change the tire if I was faced with another flat!!)
We arrived
in Mombasa after an 11-hour trip, which was slow but quite enjoyable.
We spent the night with Zakoya and Teresa Mutunga who have a house
full of relatives and children but still found very comfortable
accommodation for us. We often used their home when we came back
to “ the big smoke” and were always made most welcome
That
weekend Jeannie and I ran the second W@W gathering, this time for
60 – 75 sisters, young women and little kids. It was crowded
but lively with a very positive atmosphere. The 4 studies were around
the fruit of the spirit from Galatians 5. Jeannie did the love languages
with them for a lighter Saturday night and for recreation many walked
down to the sea where they went in the water, regardless of dress.
It was the first time for many! To our delight, the sisters sang
whenever the mood took them. It was at this weekend that we began
to appreciate the beautiful harmonies of the sisters singing and
gentle rhythmic movements that accompanied them. We never tired
of hearing and watching them.
After
the sister’s weekend, after we had stocked up on water and
other supermarket necessities, we drove south for an hour towards
the Tanzanian border , then west for 50 minutes to an area called
Mwandeo. It is green and lush this time of the year with plots of
ripening maize between palms, cashew and mango trees. Small herds
of precious cows and the ubiquitous goats and chooks were always
a part of the scene. Dotted everywhere were modest African farmhouses
and the occasional village. Here, and in many neighbouring rural
areas, live 300 Christadelphians, many young people and countless
children.
It was
mainly because of the children that we were there. Many are sponsored
by brothers and sisters from western countries through Agape in
Action (AinA). One of the tasks of AinA is to make sure these sponsored
children enjoy as good a health as possible. Jeannie had volunteered
to give the children health checks and take what measures were necessary
to get them the appropriate medication if necessary.
We needed
the help of Bro Sammy Mutunga to organize this. Bro Sammy is the
Agape in Action Rep for the coastal region. He and his wife, Christine
are an amazing couple. They have become a much trusted and very
caring pair who have the welfare of the brothers and sisters at
heart, often spending a lot of time assisting those in need. Mary,
Jeannie and I lived with them and the 7 or 8 children also living
there, for the 4 weeks I was down there. Their house is on a typical
farm (shamba) surrounded by patches of maize ,cows in their bare
yard not far from the back door, chooks wandering at will, and all
and sundry passing any time of the day. There was always something
of interest going on.
We adjusted
quite well to the different food and way of living I think, even
though it wasn’t easy at times. Water was always difficult
as it had to be brought to the house from the river or well in drums
on the bullock cart. We were very careful to use as little as possible
when (bird) bathing or clothes washing, but I’m sure the Kenyans
thought we were extravagant. We drank bottled water that could be
bought only in Mombasa. Any thing else was asking for trouble.
Each time
we went out to an area to check the children Sammy rang the day
before to advise their teachers. They met at the local ecclesial
hall. First off Mary and I would check eyes, while Jeannie would
do ears. Then the medical technician who had travelled with us ran
urine and stool checks as Bilharzia, Malaria and worms are fairly
common and need treatment if the child is to have good health. When
all the kids had been tested, those with problems would be taken
by Jeannie to the local clinic, seen by a nurse and obtain their
medication. Fortunately it is supplied free in Kenya and the cost
of the visit is not large.
Sometimes
we would be out all day if there were many children and the distances
great. We didn’t go out every day though as there was preparation
to do for our talks and the usual mundane jobs to catch up with.
Jeannie
did a series of talks at the sister’s class at Mwandeo , our
“home” ecclesia, on parenting, taken from the excellent
course “Growing Kids God’s Way”. This aroused
much interest, as did her course for the youth titled “No
Apologies”, which encourages abstinence among the single young
people. Up to 150 youth came from near and (very) far for 5 weekends
to attend. Those who travelled Saturday stayed over night at the
hall which provided several hours to discuss what they had been
taught – and there was a LOT of discussion. We felt this was
perhaps the first time the subject had been discussed in such detail
with no holds barred.
While
Jeannie was using the senior Sunday School slot to run the Sunday
session of the course I taught the juniors. As there were about
70 in that class with no resources or material. My methods were
limited but we had a worthwhile time looking at people of faith.
We sang with gusto, listened well, enjoyed the quizzes and prizes
and memorized the Bible verses. Good fun!
While
we were there the ecclesia asked us to attend 2 funerals and a wake.
Sadly 2 young Christadelphian parents of different families died
within 3 weeks of each other. Funerals are huge, with many travelling
a long way to attend as well as all the locals including the village
headman. They take place on the family’s shamba where there
is a designated place for burials. The service includes a lot of
music and singing, testimonies and speeches. We were impressed by
the care and practical and emotional support shown to the grieving
relatives, not only before the funeral but afterwards too. The elders
and extended family met for hours with the bereft father in one
family working out a solution as to the care of his young family.
Sammy often arrived home very late because of pastoral duties like
this.

A week
and a bit before I was to leave Warren, Jeannie’s husband,
arrived with Sue Witton and her friend Bev. Jeannie, especially
was very happy to see them as she had been there since April mostly
alone. Warren wasn’t given much rest as he was roped in to
give talks and lead studies almost from the minute he arrived. His
handy man skills were put to good use in inspecting and repairing
our trusty van as well as travelling to Godo with 2 local carpenters
to make desks and benches for the Agape in Action Nursery School
and ecclesial hall.
Sue and
Bev had brought 7 donated sewing machines of various vintages as
well as kilos of material and all the bits and pieces one needs
to sew. They were to run 3 sewing courses a day for 4 weeks for
the sisters and young people being supported through Agape in Action’s
Atashinda Education Fund, to learn enough to perhaps set up small
businesses. They were to begin the day after I left and teachers
and students alike were very keen.
It was
the last weekend of my stay that we ran the 3rd W@W at the Mwandeo
Hall. They told us 200 would attend but I think it was less than
that – still a lot of women! As it began Thursday evening
and finished Sunday after lunch we had to fill out the program we
used for the other two. That wasn’t difficult as several Kenyan
sisters are quite capable of speaking and leading, and Jeannie and
Sue offered to give a talk too. In addition there were walks, sports,
crafts, readings and singing, which were all enjoyed immensely.
Time went fast!
That
Sunday was my last in Mwandeo and although I was looking forward
to moving on it was sad to say goodbye and more of a wrench to leave
than I’d thought it would be. I had learnt such a lot about
African life, about doing without and about myself! It was an experience
I’d not miss; meeting so many keen and faithful sisters especially,
working with Jeannie who is a marvel, and experiencing the many
kindnesses of Mary who made day-to-day life a bit easier for us.
I had
prayed about 2 things especially: that my time there would be profitable
and that I wouldn’t get sick. Both prayers were answered (the
first according to Jeannie). I also asked for other help, all of
which was granted! My faith was strengthened and my zeal increased.
I pray
that the Kenyan brothers and sisters continue to live by the spirit,
producing its fruit, and that we in the West have the wisdom and
will to help them where and how they need it.
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